Saturday, May 31, 2008
PLEASE DON'T ASK ME WHAT SILLY THING I AM DOING RIGHT NOW.. JUST THAT IT IS SILLY!
15 SIMPLE WAYS TO KEEP YOUR PARTNER HAPPY
So you're in a relationship and your partner starts nagging. She tells you that you just don't understand her, and that she really wishes that you would just do more "little things."
It's not the big things that make her happy; it's paying attention to the little details and showing you care that is really meaningful. She doesn't necessarily need lavish gifts -- she needs to know you're thinking about her.
Here are some ideas to get you started doing these "little things" she really wants:
1. Rub her feet instead of asking her if she wants you to rub her feet. Make it look like you want to do it.
2. Make her dinner one night. Don't ask her if she wants you to make dinner. Make her dinner before she gets home.
3. Light a candle so that she arrives home to a nice environment instead of coming home to the
glaring lights of the television and other things.
4. Send her a text in the middle of the day telling her "I miss your smile from this morning" or "Last night was amazing!" or "The conversation we had last night was great."
5. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her. Send an eCard in the middle of the day... something cute to remind her how much you really care about her.
6. If she's going on a business trip, offer to drive her to the airport or pick her up to make her life that much easier.
7. Let her have control of the remote control. Don't monopolize it for a change. Just give it to her and let her actually sit there and enjoying watching one of her shows. Then you can share one of her interests by watching it with her.
8. Offer to iron one of her shirts or take her clothes to the dry cleaner.
9. Clean up the bathroom without being asked. Don't just sit there and ignore the mess around the toilet. If you know it drives her crazy to see water splashed all around the sink, dry that area after you use it.
10. If you work out together, enjoy it with her instead of rushing through your own workout and then not letting her workout at the same time.
11. Take a shower together, then wash her hair, scrub her back, and give her a spa treatment. Do this and enjoy it!
12. The next time she gives you a massage, give her a massage the next day. Offer it! Don't just say you'll give her a massage...do it!
13. Surprise her by making plans. Tell her, "We're going out tonight honey." You can even just go out for a drink or dinner somewhere. It's taking the initiative that's important.
14. Decide on and set aside one night a week as date night. Have a date like when you first started dating.
15. Call her in the middle of the day and just say hello. Don't wait for her to call you.
It can be simple to keep her satisfied. It's not necessarily about what you give her financially or what gifts you give her. That's a cop out. It's the little things. The guy who makes the biggest mistake is the one who ignores their significant other then all of a sudden give them an expensive gift to make up for it. That doesn't make up for it at all
taken from 15 SIMPLE WAYS TO KEEP YOUR PARTNER HAPPY
why do i have to tell.. can't he just know?
p/s: minus no 11!
Wednesday, May 28, 2008
oh shit! i cuak giler skarang ni and i sempat lg nak update blog? @_@
anyway, Grey's Anatomy season finale was last week.. and let me tell u this, WHAT A BIG FINALE IT WAS!! it was great! a mixture of sadness and happiness put in together.. it was by far the best finale to date!!
there was too many kissing scenes it actually made my head spins.. haha!
so i have to wait till September till the new season begins..
in the meantime, for summer TV watching time.. i am turning to weeds.. it's a really cool series about the business of drug dealing.. the series is like desperate housewives but with a twist.. if u watch it, I'm sure you'll enjoy it.. huhu.. season 4 starting this June.. can't wait!
Monday, May 26, 2008
anyway, UEFA Cup Finals was held in Moscow on the 21st of May (which also the date of Backstreet Boys concert in Moscow) and i could go to neither of them.. because:
- tak cukup duit.. :(
- exams coming up
Mainly it's because I'M BROKE! i just paid my flight ticket so i am left with nothing.. :( i have to wait next month for my allowance.. hrmm..
ok, back to the main story.. although i didn't get to go to the real match in LUZHNIKI STADIUM, i did get to go to the fan festival.. i went on TUESDAY.. the fan fest was held from Saturday to Wednesday.. This UEFA finals match is BIG.. and i mean REALLY BIG! why? because it's between MANCHESTER UNITED AND CHELSEA! and you could just imagine..
there was so many English fans coming to Moscow to watch the game.. I usually hear Russian.. but that day, i was hearing English - which not something u experience everyday in Moscow.. huhu.. but - there weren't any hooligans roaming around Moscow..
There wasn't really like a lot of things there.. we just took a lot of pictures.. got like museums, shows, football match, merchandise booth, etc.. just like a basic carnival would look like.. huhu..
anyway, here's some pics to say it all..
*I'm in MOSCOW*
*Manchester United booth*
A few of my friends got free tickets and it was in the VIP SEATS! lucky buggers.. i have no idea how they got them but they got them.. cess..
Saturday, May 24, 2008
MELALUI ruangan ini, ingin saya mengutarakan pendapat. Mengapa perlu menghantar pelajar cemerlang STPM atau SPM keluar negara untuk melanjutkan pelajaran dalam bidang perubatan sedangkan kita mempunyai universiti tempatan yang dahulunya setaraf Oxford apabila mengeluarkan pelajar perubatan? Kerajaan membelanjakan banyak duit untuk menaja pelajar perubatan di luar negara. Pada pendapat saya, kerajaan mengalami lebih kerugian daripada keuntungan. Pertama, kos untuk melahirkan pelajar perubatan di luar negara memerlukan sekurang-kurangnya RM1 juta untuk seorang pelajar. Ditambah lagi kenaikan elaun kepada 28 hingga 84 peratus seperti diumumkan dalam Bajet 2008 dengan kebanyakan pelajar perubatan menerima 84 peratus kenaikan berikutan meningkatnya kos sara hidup pelajar secara keseluruhan. Kedua, kajian daripada ahli akademik dan juga doktor tempatan mendapati graduan luar negara tidak kompetitif, tidak mesra pada pesakit dan juga tidak mempunyai kemahiran untuk mengendalikan kes klinikal contohnya, ambil darah, pemeriksaan perubatan.Ini adalah jelas kerana di negara di mana mereka belajar, pelajar perubatan tidak dibenarkan sama sekali untuk menyentuh pesakit, tidak seperti di negara kita. Ketiga, pelajar perubatan keluar menjadi doktor pelatih dan belum tentu dia akan menjadi pakar apalagi ketua jabatan. Lebih baik menaja pelajar dalam bidang jurusan lain kerana dengan kos yang banyak itu, kita mampu melahirkan lebih banyak jurutera, peguam, akauntan dan mereka ini mungkin akan keluar menjadi ketua eksekutif (CEO) di sesebuah syarikat besar berkaitan kerajaan. Keempat, graduan luar negara tidak berterima kasih pada kerajaan. Malah, bukan saja menjadi pembangkang di sana dan menghasut pelajar lain di sana, malah ada yang tidak balik ke Malaysia selepas tamat belajar demi mengejar gaji yang lumayan di luar negara.Sepatutnya kita menghantar pelajar yang berjaya ini ke universiti dalam negara agar kita tidak lagi membazir menghantar pelajar perubatan yang berasakan diri ini terlalu bagus. Kelima, kita sudah terlalu banyak universiti atau kolej yang melahirkan pelajar perubatan. Kalaulah alasan kerajaan yang kita kekurangan doktor, maka dengan ini kita perlu menghantar pelajar luar negara, jelas sekali ia satu kata-kata yang tidak tepat sedangkan kita mempunyai lebih kurang 15 universiti tempatan awam dan swasta yang melahirkan purata 150 graduan perubatan setahun, bersamaan dengan lebih daripada 2,000 hingga 3,000 doktor setiap tahun.Adalah lebih baik menaja semua pelajar perubatan yang berada di institusi pengajian tinggi ini kerana kosnya jauh lebih murah iaitu kira-kira RM200,000 dan juga melahirkan doktor yang benar-benar berkualiti. Barulah selepas ini kita tidak lagi mendengar kes bayi tangan putus dan sebagainya. Ingin saya jelaskan, kita sebenarnya bukan kekurangan doktor cuma doktor yang tidak mahu ke hospital yang jauh dari bandar. Kita sepatutnya meniru negara jiran Singapura, kerana mereka tidak menaja pelajar perubatan ke luar negara kerana sedar ia tidak akan memberi keuntungan kepada kerajaan dan juga rakyat.
Fakulti Perubatan,Universiti Malaya.
Surat Pembaca - Berita Harian, 06/05/08
I could never really get the mind of these kind of people.. i find them somewhat - close minded.. do please leave your comment on this.. hehe.. check out the "SENIOR'S" BLOG.. he has some really good insight and comments on this so-called "MAHASISWA BIASA".. LOL~
Thursday, May 15, 2008
what can i say about my boyfriend? huhu... sometimes or most times, he can be a pain in the ass.. so stubborn, so lazy, so annoying, so tak boleh diharap! well, not all the time.. but sometimes he can be caring and loving and sweet and cute and adorable and helpful too... i ♥ him.. no matter what.. :P i do hope that this relationship works because i don't want to spend another 5 years or more and in the end it doesn't work out.. I am all committed now.. I am no more the playful girl I'm use to be.. ☺
well, all of us are growing up and learning about each other.. me and b, we're building our relationships.. and of course there's the ups and downs of it.. that is what i call memories.. the important thing is we love each other.. but of course not more that our family.. unless of course the both of us are already "di-ijab-kabul-kan".. :þ huhuhu~ well, that is still a long way to go.. now is focusing on our mind is our studies and later work.. kalau ade jodoh, kerja dah stable, duit dah cukup, boleh beli rumah... - ok2.. lets just cut it until there.. because u see, i have fantasies about my marriage.. hehehe.. and in order to make that fantasy to come true, well.. lets just say i need more preparations.. tapi, kalau jodoh datang awal, ape salahnye? hukhuk~ :þ
OK2.. back to his birthday.. well, we went out for dinner on Sunday, his birthday is on the 12th May but 12th May is on Monday.. and we have class.. so on Sunday, we went for Dinner in a Korean Restaurant called Jasmin.. The place was quite classy and comfortable.. very nice..
bB ordered Ikan bakar ( i don't remember what its called in the menu) but it was Ikan bakar.. I had умрайс (Umrais - something that resembles nasi goreng pattaya) and sushi.. it was a lot.. we couldn't finish everything.. it was very satisfying..
later that night, at 12 a.m, i brought the birthday cake to his room.. the cake tasted good! he blew the candles and we cut the cake..☺
*okay..i look fat in this pic, i have no idea why*
his friends came into the room around 12.30 a.m with a surprise! they even surprised me! they were all wearing slack pants and shirt with tie.. i don't know what was going on there.. and B was already in his Pjs (which was t-shirt and boxers).. but his friends looked good.. haha.. they took pictures, eat some munchies, told some funny stories, and some were really funny too! although, i always find warren's laugh a bit fake.. huhu.. dont know why, maybe its just the way he is? idk..
after his friends had all gone back to their rooms, i went up to my room, and brought him CUPPY CAKES!!! hehehe.. i ordered from Kak Adele.. they were really good!! and also a sparkle juice..
*I♥A stands for Irfan ♥ Anna*
the birthday party ended at 3 a.m.. huhu..
and the next day.. both of us fell sick.. huhu.. and we're still recovering.. :þ
[*hugs&kisses* for bB]
♥!HAPPY BIRTHDAY IRFAN!♥
Monday, May 5, 2008
the night went well, although we had some technical problem where the projector wasn't working and some of the 6th years wasn't called out.. huhu.. kesian diorang.. hurmm..
everyone said that my opening and closing dance was great!! YEAY!! although it was a bit kelam kabut at the beginning.. i was late to be the MC for the lucky draw, so Jivan had to ganti for me.. uhuu.. coz i was still busy getting ready after the dance.. i have to look gorgeous u know~ anyway, i am so very lazy to write.. so I'll put up the pics.. *wink*
*the opening dance - as u can see, there's me..hehe*
*me and my groupmates looking hot.. hehe*
*me and Jivan as MCs, we were interviewing the nominees of MASSAD King and Queen*
And do wish me luck for my upcoming exams! First paper is on the 30th May.. huahuahua~ I have to get back to studying..